Erkek arkadaşım alana ihtiyacı olduğunu söyledi ve ertesi gün telefonumu patlatmaya başladı. Paspas olmak istemiyorum. Ne yapmalıyım?

Answer 1

O zaman paspas olmayın. Ona şunun gibi bir mesaj gönder, "Sana yer açmaya çalışıyorum ama telefonumu patlatıyorsun. Bunun işe yaraması için bana mesaj atmayı bırakmalısın. Bunu yapamayacağına göre ben Bunu ikimiz için de yapacağım. Biraz boş yerin olsun diye seni bir aylığına engelleyeceğim." sonra onu engelle ve bir ay boyunca görmezden gel. Bundan sonra, onunla olan ilişkinizi tekrar gözden geçirebilir ve daha fazla sürdürmeye değer olup olmadığını görebilirsiniz.

En içten dileklerimle!

Answer 2

Ona alanını vermelisin!!
Hemen.

"Anlıyorum" deyin. Senin için en iyi olanı yap."
Daha fazlasını mı söylemek istiyorsun?
Ekleyin: “Zaman ayırdığınız için teşekkürler. Her zaman hatırlayacağım (iyi bir zaman ekleyin). Hoşçakal!"
Hafif ve nazik olun.

Daha sonra kesinlikle onunla iletişime geçmeyin.
Hiç.

Sana geri dönmesini istiyorsan tek yol bu.

Erkekler hava atmayı sever, genellikle senin yerini almak için değildir, o yüzden sakin ol.
Bir nevi onun sınavı.
Yanıltıcı “özgürlük” ve şirketinizin konforu.
Bu bir kimlik meselesi.

Ona özgürlük ver.

Ve onunla iletişime geçme.
"Seni özlüyorum"
yok E-posta yok.
Çağrı yok.

Mesaj atmak yok.

Seni özlemesine izin ver.
Ve 40 gün veya daha kısa sürede geri dönecek.

Sosyal medyadaysanız, hayatınızdan zevk alırken fotoğraflarınızı göndermenizde bir sakınca yok.
Ancak çekimlerde yalnız olun. Parti veya tarih yok.
Sadece eğlenceli şeyler yapıyorsun. Güzel görünüyor.

Başkalarıyla çık, ama yüzünü ovma.
Devam ettiğinizi belirten tonu ayarlamalısınız.
Hayatınızı süper bir tren yolculuğu olarak düşünün.

Bir istasyonda indi.
Tren yoluna devam etti!
Tekrar gitmek isterse, sizi bir sonraki istasyonda yakalamak için koşması gerekecek.

Size en iyisi!

Answer 3

He is probably cheating, looking at porn or talking to someone he doesn't want you to know about. Does he lock his phone? Go through it, especially if he goes through yours!. Usually if one snoops through your stuff but will not let you “look" at their stuff then they have a guilty conscience!! On an android just an fyi go to gmail app and then settings and acount info. You can see every app downloaded and the times they open the apps including msgs, snapchat ect. You can also look at browsing history, YouTube searches and watched videos. Turn on the search and app history if it isn't on. Dont forget to check if there is multiple emails in the gmail options and check hangout accounts for additional emails, msgs, calls, and contacts. That is very fishy if he is looking through ur stuff but u cannot look through his? I'm not one to be jealous, insecure, snoop or invade ones privacy at all but I have to now days. Maybe I should have… ☹ My fiance used to be exactly like this.. come to find out he was cheating on me and I wouldn't have found out if it wasnt for her husband sending me the sex videos they made in our new home that he found on her phone !! He looked through my things frequently as I always told him go ahead thatll make me feel better if u have doubts of me being untruthful!! He would never would let me look at his.. he was also on his phone A LOT… I swore he would never do this to me… that he was perfect, loyal and the best… and u think well my man would never we been together 10 years he has a very good job both have degrees, we have 5 kids and just bought a house & new cars. Everything seemed good… why would he after most of our dream checklist was almost all checked off. He always talked bad about cheaters and infidelity to make it seem as if he wasn't one himself. But…. Never just assume u have the best, what is the best anyways.. does that even exist ?? Cheating happens way more than u think especially now that electronics are always at palms reach. Grab his phone when he is sleeping if u have to. Also if u don't know his password ask to use his phone to call someone and if he has fingerprint unlock add ur fingerprint !!! Tell him… since he looks through urs it makes u wonder if u shud be looking through his or when he grabs urs grab his. Also if u do look and see nothing then maybe that'll help u to feel better about it all… but I myself think something is probably not right, this sounds way too familiar. Also sometimes… people use incognito (mine did) after I found out he was using incognito to msg from a msging app and make dating profiles. So trust ur gut instinct it's usually right 90% of the time. it's not fun finding out he is hiding so much I found out the hard way my Sgt. husband that seemed so stern in rules, laws and all was not what we all thought at all. His actions ruined all 6 of our lives… (myself+5kids) we ended up moving out of the new home 3k sq ft, they lost their own rooms, huge yard, their dad, switched schools, grades dropped, depression problems.

His excuse was he wasnt thinking right with stress at work and regretted it all…

There is absolutely NO REASON anyone should cheat. If they are unhappy just leave/divorce. He eneded up in a wreck right after.. on new years eve in the snow on hwy. he was ok but I think it was karma 2nd time I found out he ended up in another wreck a dog ran in front of him.

Good luck !!

If u dont catch him KARMA will

Just hope ur outcome is different it hurts like hell to be cheated on by the one u have been faithful too and the 1 person u trust to be there for u emotionally not break u.