両親はどのようにして彼らが十分に年をとる前に彼らのティーンエイジャーがデートするのを防ぐのですか？

Answer 1

娘が10代の場合、彼女は十分に年をとっています。私は10代の頃、両親の後ろに隠れてしまう10代の女の子にたくさん会いました。これは複雑なシステムでした。私が学校でデートした最初の女の子は、私がドライバーのトレーニングをしている間、彼女が私と一緒に理解できるようにサマースクールを受講しました。私たちは両方とも15歳でした。彼女は男の子と一緒にたむろできるようにバンドamdドラマに参加しました。

Parents just need to set clear boundaries when it comes to their teen dating. Its either that or they will set unrealistic rules and she will do what she wants anyway by lying. They can be in control of the situation by compromising. By that, parent supervised dates, not letting her go to his home, insisting to meet his parents, no letting him go into her room, etc. Explaining to her why. Give reasons like STDs and teenage pregnancy.

Meeting him and his parents and speaking with them is a definite. You can try to judge if he has any red flags. See if any of them exhibit narcissistic or sociopathic traits. Try to find out what their professions are and if they went to college. Its a good measure of their moral compass.

Answer 2

Hi there, I feel that what matters most is to have a strong bond-communication with your child. It is vital to talk to him/her about these topics. Fortunately, I have always had open communication with my daughter about this. I remember when she started high school, she asks me about dating this boy, my first reaction was to deny her request. Later I understood that that was not the best thing to do and talked to her about it instead. This made a stronger bond between us. This have been a learning experience for the both of us, honestly, I preferred that she comes to me for advice. I know I want the best for her.

Blessings!