Tenho 14 anos. Se meu pai é emocionalmente abusivo comigo e com minha mãe, posso ir ao tribunal para ficar longe dele?

Answer 1

Vá ao seu conselheiro escolar e comece a falar. Essas pessoas são as únicas que podem ajudar e falar por você se seu estado é como Washington, onde as crianças não têm voz, é BS francamente, mas você tem que agradecer a alguém que estragou isso para todos os outros. Espero que onde você esteja, você possa ter uma voz e falar por si mesmo. Mas se não, ter uma trilha de papel com um conselheiro ajudará. Grave-o secretamente a cada vez. Novamente - aqui é muita prova para que os legisladores não gostem - onde você está pode ser uma história diferente.

Counselor may call CPS… is your mom wanting out as well? Does she try to protect you and stand up against this piece of crap father? If not, than you need to get as much proof as possible for yourself. I don't know your mom, but if she sides with him, and you have no proof of his abuse than it's their word against your's and be prepared for it to get worse. I wish people weren't horrible narcissistic jerks, you kids never deserve that and shouldn't ever have to experience that ever!

Please be safe, I am proud of you for trying to get out of that situation and I hope that my little bit of advice helps. ❤

Answer 2

You would need to report him to the authorities and when you do that, the courts will give him a restraining order on him, stating that he isn't allowed to get so many yards away from you and your mother. If he violates the order he will go to jail. And in two years once your sixteen you can get yourself Emancipated. (That means you can divorce your parents and be considered an adult in the eyes of the court. Just be prepared to struggle for the next few years. It isn't easy supporting yourself. You may think otherwise but once you're an adult you are going to lose most of your freedom, you'll probably need 2 full time jobs to stay ahead of your bills. Which means that most of your time will be doing whatever your boss asks or you end up on the streets.