평온기도는 무엇이며 누가 썼습니까?

Mar 22 2021
이 짧은 4 줄기도는 세계에서 가장 잘 알려진기도 중 하나입니다. 그러나 누가 그것을 썼고 어떻게 AA와 관련이있게 되었습니까?
평온한기도는 산비탈에 새겨 져있는 것을 볼 수있을 정도로 잘 알려져 있습니다. thebeebesknees / Pixabay

평온한기도는 시간을 초월합니다. 25 단어에 불과한 겸손하고 진지한 기도 는 격동의 세상에서 위안과 힘과 지혜를 간청합니다.


내가 바꿀 수없는 것을 받아들이 는 평온함 ,
내가 할 수있는 것을 바꿀 수있는 용기
, 차이를 아는 지혜.

Within Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), the original 12-step recovery program, the serenity prayer is nothing short of scripture. It's printed in every AA handbook, embossed on plaques in meeting halls, and recited daily by individuals struggling with addiction or at group meetings.

But who wrote the serenity prayer? Early attempts by AA to identify its origins generated a long list of potential authors, including St. Francis of Assisi , Aristotle, Sophocles and ancient sages from Egypt to India.

The true author of the serenity prayer isn't a household name like St. Francis or Aristotle, and he didn't write his famous verses in some ancient tongue. He was a German-American theologian and Christian ethicist named Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971), and he penned the original words of what became the serenity prayer in 1932. Then he promptly forgot them.

'An American Conscience'

"Reinhold Niebuhr is the most influential person you've never heard of," says Jeremy Sabella, a religion professor at Dartmouth University and author of "An American Conscience: The Reinhold Niebuhr Story." "He was a combination of preacher, journalist, ethicist, politician, an insanely prolific author of more than 1,400 articles — cram all those things into one person and you have Reinhold."

The historian Arthur Schlesinger, Jr. called Niebuhr "the most influential American theologian of the 20th century" and Martin Luther King, Jr . said Niebuhr was a man of "great prophetic vision" with "unswerving devotion to the ideals of freedom and justice." Barack Obama cited Niebuhr as "one of my favorite philosophers."

In 1932, the same year that he conjured up the words of the serenity prayer as part of an otherwise forgotten sermon, Niebuhr wrote his landmark book, "Moral Man and Immoral Society: A Study in Ethics and Politics." The thesis of the book was that people are generally good on an individual level, but that we often discard our morals and principles when acting as larger groups. Sabella believes that both the book and the prayer were Niebuhr's response to "a low point in history" that included the Great Depression and the rise of fascism in Europe.

"He could feel all of this conflict rumbling underneath the surface of the time," says Sabella. "People are starving, they can't find work, the entire international order is on the verge of crumbling."

The Original Serenity Prayer

The version of the serenity prayer copied above is the one popularized by AA, which first found the prayer in 1941 in a newspaper obituary and had no knowledge of its author. But the original text written by Niebuhr in 1932 was slightly different:

God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed,
courage to change the things that should be changed,
and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other.

Sabella believes that even small differences are significant. For one, Niebuhr's original asks for "grace," not serenity, to accept the things that cannot be changed. In Christian theology, God's grace is shown through His unconditional love for a sinful humankind. And in Niebuhr's original version, the grace being sought is the acceptance that some things can't be changed, not the serenity itself.

"In a single sentence, he's compacting grace, serenity, courage, wisdom and connecting it to one of the central conundrums of life: What can we shape and what can't we? When do we push ahead and when do we just accept where we're at?" says Sabella.

또한 Niebuhr의 원래 버전은 "변경 될 수있는"것이 아니라 "변경되어야하는"것을 변경할 용기를 요구한다는 점도 중요합니다. Niebuhr의 딸인 문학 편집자이자 출판사 인 Elisabeth Sifton 은 아버지의기도에 대한 책을 썼고 원래 버전은 사회 전체 정의의 이름으로 해야 할 일을 해결하기 위해 개인이 "할 수있는"일을 묻는 것 이상이라고 믿었습니다 .

"There are certain things in life that are moral imperatives and even if we can't change them in our moment, we're still called to work for those changes," says Sabella. "What we see in the AA formulation is the individualized version of the prayer for when we're dealing with stuff personally. Part of what we're seeing in Niebuhr's original version of the prayer is, what are we doing as a group? He was very concerned with what human groups could accomplish."

Controversy Over Authorship

When Niebuhr wrote the serenity prayer, he was a professor at the Union Theological Seminary in New York City and was also a mainstay on the university speaking circuit. Sabella says that Niebuhr traveled every weekend for decades to give sermons in different college chapels, and that he would often "hammer out" a prayer on the way to the gig.

"The serenity prayer, from what we can gather, was just one out of probably hundreds of prayers that Niebuhr wrote to start out his sermons," says Sabella. "There's nothing to indicate that Niebuhr himself saw it as anything particularly special."

In fact, the serenity prayer may have been lost to history if not for a woman named Winnifred Crane Wygal, a YWCA leader who studied under Niebuhr at the Union Theological Seminary.

The earliest reference to the serenity prayer appears in Wygal's personal diary. On Oct. 31, 1932, she wrote: "R.N. says that 'moral will plus imagination are the two elements of which faith is compounded.' 'The victorious man in the day of crisis is the man who has the serenity to accept what he cannot help and the courage to change what must be altered.'"

While the quote isn't an exact match for the three-part structure of the prayer, the sentiment is the same and it's attributed to "R.N." for Reinhold Niebuhr. Throughout the 1930s, Wygal included longer versions of Niebuhr's original prayer in her YWCA talks and articles. As a result, most of the earliest printed versions of the serenity prayer were also from YWCA, like this 1936 version quoted by Mildred Pinkerton of the Syracuse YWCA:

O God, give us courage to change what must be altered,
serenity to accept what cannot be helped,
and insight to know the one from the other.

By the early 1940s, versions of the serenity prayer were beloved enough to be included in printed obituaries, which is where the AA first found it in the New York Herald Tribune. "Never had we seen so much A.A. in so few words," Bill W. the co-founder of AA said about the prayer. In 1941, some AA members decided to have it printed up on cards that fellow members could carry in their wallets.

The prayer was also shipped overseas during World War II and used in devotionals for American servicemen. By 1950, the serenity prayer had become so well-known that people went searching for its author.

Niebuhr는 그가 그것을 썼다고 상당히 확신했지만 세부 사항에 대해서는 안개가 낀다. 그와 그의 아내는 그것이 1942 년 또는 1943 년에 쓰여졌다 고 추측했고, Niebuhr는기도에서 아이디어의 기원을 기억할 수 없다고 인정했습니다.

AA 간행물 "Grapevine"의 1950 년 호에서는 Niebuhr가 "물론 [기도]는 수년, 심지어 수세기 동안 겁을 먹었을 지 모르지만 그렇게 생각하지 않습니다. 솔직히 제가 그것을 썼다고 믿습니다. 자기."

Fred Shapiro, a librarian at the Yale Law School, stirred up controversy in 2008 when he presented evidence that versions of the serenity prayer were in circulation years before Niebuhr claimed to have authored it in 1942. Shapiro is the editor of the authoritative "Yale Book of Quotations" and has debunked other famous attributions including P.T. Barnum's "There's a sucker born every minute."

In 2014, however, Shapiro confirmed Niebuhr's true authorship after tracking down Wygal's diary entry and discovering that Niebuhr had actually written the prayer in 1932, not 1942. The controversy is over and Niebuhr's humble prayer still resonates.

"For a very long time in AA, I clung to the first line of the prayer 'with all the fervour with which the drowning seize life preservers.' It wasn't hard for me to pray for serenity, because serenity was what I had been looking for from a bottle and a glass, a pill, or whatever else seemed to offer me a momentary escape from my own often tormented head," wrote Tony on an AA UK website. "As I experienced some serenity in my life, being an alcoholic I naturally wanted more. So in times of stress, which were many, I prayed for it. I prayed for enough serenity to get me through each day, without a drink and without succumbing completely to anxiety. And guess what? It worked, it really did."

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Now That's Cool

The serenity prayer is plastered on everything from coffee mugs to decorative plates to (lots of) tattoos. Sabella says that Niebuhr's friends used to amuse him later in life by bringing him the kitschiest examples of serenity prayer merchandise they could find.